Samantha Tomkinson

What Leaders Aren't Saying

Leaders: decision fatigue and overwhelm are signals, not failures. In this episode Samantha Tomkinson and Damian unpack why emotional intelligence, somatics and meditation are essential leadership tools — how to check in with feelings, release stuck energy, and lead from presence. Practical practices and retreat insights for sustainable performance and clearer decisions.

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Show Notes

HIGHLIGHTS & QUOTES

01:58 - Damian’s framing: why sitting still is counterintuitive for high achievers and why it matters.

02:38 - Samantha on current leader trends: “heightened anxiety…more ambiguity” and decision-making fatigue.

04:36 - Why leaders need wellbeing retreats: “manage your energy, not your time.”

07:52 - Emotional intelligence as a leadership foundation: EQ > IQ for sustainable success.

09:39 - Practical practice: the self-awareness check-in (bodily scan + naming feelings).

12:28 - Meditation myth busted: “Meditation isn’t about achieving stillness — it’s awareness without attachment.”

15:06 - One-on-one coaching: “unpacking beliefs” and the power of holding space for leaders.

18:31 - Emotions as “energy in motion” — why releasing emotion lightens the body and mind.

23:05 - When to seek help: retreats, therapists, and using tools like BetterHelp as a start.

27:11 - Somatics defined: working from the felt sense in the body before cognitive integration.

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DISCLAIMER

This podcast is for informational purposes only and not intended to provide medical advice or to take the place of medical advice or treatment from a personal physician.

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